I am still grieving and am looking for someone to be friends with first. I am not interested in hooking up. I'm a total home body, likes to cook, garden, walk my dog, computer nerd, entertain friends, (watch movies, science fiction), read, guys who are musicians and going out to eat. I'm looking for another homebody / nerd. Looking for a guy who likes other guys and enjoys the intimacy of a male / male relationship. I'd like to meet someone who is kind and gentle. Likes to sleep together, cuddle and wants to be friends first.